Is it another girl? Then you will find physical is forgivable. In time.
Is it money? Then you will find, talk is the best security you can have in this life. No better investment than communication with your partner.
Or those little things like putting down the toilet ring for you? Then you will find there are many other big things in life you must face.
So, what’s stopping you from trying harder for someone you love most?
To me, it is when he decided to quit. Just quit.